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 Re: Shoes after boot
Nicola Stan    11:14am Sep 24 2019

Hey Annette,

I've been away from the site as I've started a huge new job but I wanted to offer you support....

This time last year, I was given the news that also my leg was not showing any signs of healing - my x-ray showed for the first time at 16 weeks, so I really really really understand what you are going through, how you are feeling, the depths of despair worrying ect. Do you remember the first smigeon of advice I gave to you way back in the summer - be the best friend to yourself, offer words of kindness and explanation and most importantly reassurance - you WILL get better and your leg WILL get better, it just decides to heal in its own way...some people are lucky and are text book cases - healing in 2/3 months, weight bearing ect....however some people do not - the likes of you, me and Pauline M Hall. She offered constructive advise to me last year as she was also a slow healer, and everything she said came true, even if I could not quite 'see' it, or visualize it - it happened, my leg began to heal, gently and slowly, but it DID heal. Half the battle with a broken leg is trying to manage the negative thoughts so I concentrated on the here and now - this gave me a reason to smile each and every day when I felt broken and unhealed and despairing. Slowly I thought and saw beautiful day to day things that if I hadn't broken my leg I would not have seen. Thinking of the here and now helped me, I hope you will find something to help you also. Don't get me wrong, I am no holier than thou person, I hit rock bottom - but if you do hit your rock bottom, there is only a way up - right?? Do not despair, as you have said to me in the past - bodies heal in quite miraculous ways, mostly where we can't visually see, mostly where x-rays cannot see...but they do in their own time heal - I'm wishing you healing thoughts - harder than words could imagine, but essential. Take lots and lots of care and sorry for boycotting this post TDH.

Nicky x x x

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